April 01, 2018
More and more people who once hesitated to openly admit their sexual orientation now live in a time where acceptance is steadily growing. But does this mean homophobia and discrimination are things of the past? Unfortunately, not at all. Despite the progress, many, especially homosexual people, still face prejudice and discrimination.
There are truly countless sexual orientations and gender identities, many of which I wasn't even aware of myself. In this short article, we'll simply start with the most common ones to establish some basic knowledge (just to gain a fundamental understanding). The more this diversity is integrated into our everyday lives, the faster acceptance will grow, and the more it will be seen as just as normal as a heterosexual, monogamous relationship between cisgender couples.
Sexual Orientations
There are many different types of sexual orientation:
Heterosexuality: Attraction to persons of the opposite sex.
Homosexuality: Attraction to persons of one's own sex.
Bisexuality: Attraction to persons of both sexes.
Pansexuality: Attraction to persons of any sex, regardless of their biological sex or gender identity.
Asexuality: No or very little sexual attraction to other persons.
Each of these sexual orientations is normal and acceptable as long as they occur consensually between adults. No one should be discriminated against or stigmatized because of their sexual orientation.
Gender Identities
In addition to sexual orientation, there are also various gender identities:
Cisgender: Individuals whose gender identity matches the sex assigned to them at birth. For example, someone assigned female at birth who identifies as a woman
Transgender: Individuals whose gender identity does not align with the sex assigned to them at birth.
Transmasculine: Individuals who were assigned female at birth but identify as male or adopt masculine traits.
Transfeminine: Individuals who were assigned male at birth but identify as female or adopt feminine traits.
Non-binary: Individuals who do not exclusively identify as male or female. This group can encompass a variety of identities, such as genderqueer or genderfluid.
Agender: Individuals who identify as genderless or without gender.
Bigender: Individuals who identify as both male and female or switch between these identities.
Genderfluid: Individuals whose gender identity changes over time.
This list is not exhaustive, as gender identity is highly individual and diverse. It is important to accept and respect the variety of gender identities, just as it is with sexual orientations. Every person should have the right to express their identity freely and be recognized without prejudice.
Relationship Types
Just like sexual orientation and gender identity, relationship styles can vary widely:
Monogamy: A relationship in which two people are exclusively committed to each other.
Open Relationship: A committed partnership in which both partners agree to allow romantic or sexual relationships with other people.
Polyamory: Engaging in multiple romantic or sexual relationships at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.
Casual Relationship: A relationship without long-term commitment, often focused on companionship or sexual connection.
This list is not exhaustive, as gender identity is highly individual and diverse. It is important to accept and respect the variety of gender identities, just as it is with sexual orientations. Every person should have the right to express their identity freely and be recognized without prejudice.
Everyone Is Different
And now, to all heterosexual, cisgender people in monogamous relationships who condemn everything else and label it as "not normal":
Every form of sexual orientation, gender identity and relationship style that is based on mutual consent and respect deserves full acceptance. No one chooses how they feel or whom they love. It's simply a part of who they are.
And no matter how "unnatural" it may seem to some: Homosexual behavior has been documented in countless animal species. That alone proves there is nothing unnatural about it. And those who still claim that sex is meant solely for reproduction should honestly ask themselves if, in their own heterosexual relationship, they only have sex to conceive children. If not, it should be clear that sexuality serves far more purposes than just reproduction.
No one should be judged, shamed, or restricted in their freedom simply because their identity or orientation doesn't fit into someone else's personal worldview.
Scientific Articles and Studies
Sexual orientation, parental support, and health during the transition to young adulthood
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20383570/
The Health of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender People
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK64806/
Sexual orientation and mental health: Examining identity and development in lesbian, gay, and bisexual people.
https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2005-11757-000
Sexual orientation and suicidal behaviour in adolescents and young adults: systematic review and meta-analysis
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/the-british-journal-of-psychiatry/article/sexual-orientation-and-suicidal-behaviour-in-adolescents-and-young-adults-systematic-review-and-metaanalysis/30CA9DA3EC80710148DF3AAD945DA618
Sexual Orientation Disparities in Substance Misuse: The Role of Childhood Abuse and Intimate Partner Violence Among Patients in Care at an Urban Community Health Center
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3918899/
Closing Words
So, for everyone to note once again, especially those who may not have understood it until now: All sexual orientations and preferences are normal and acceptable as long as they occur consensually between adults. No one should be discriminated against or stigmatized because of their sexual orientation or preferences.